Guys Please Don't Make These Mistakes When You Get Your Ex Back

Are you confused about all the information out there, what to do, or where to begin?  When you’re trying to get your ex back, it’s important that you avoid making any mistakes that could jeopardize your chances. Here are six mistakes to avoid:

Don’t try to convince your ex to take you back.

Trying to convince your ex to take you back is only going to push them further away. If they’ve decided that they’re better off without you, then trying to convince them otherwise is only going to make them resent you.

Don’t beg or plead with your ex.

Just like trying to convince them to take you back, begging or pleading with your ex is only going to make them resent you. If they don’t want to be with you, then begging them to change their mind is only going to make them feel uncomfortable and further solidify their decision to leave you.

Don’t try to reason with your ex.

Trying to reason with your ex is a waste of time. If they’ve decided that they don’t want to be with you, then no amount of reasoning is going to change their mind.

Don’t try to guilt your ex into taking you back.

Trying to guilt your ex into taking you back is only going to make them feel even more certain that they made the right decision in leaving you. Guilt is a negative emotion and it’s not going to help you win your ex back.

Don’t try to make your ex jealous.

Trying to make your ex jealous in an attempt to get them back is only going to backfire. If they see that you’re trying to make them jealous, it’s only going to make them think that you’re not over them and that you’re still hung up on them.

Don’t try to win your ex back with gifts or grand gestures.

Trying to win your ex back with gifts or grand gestures is only going to make them think that you’re trying to buy their love. If they see that you’re willing to spend money on them in an attempt to get them back, it’s only going to make them think that you’re desperate and that you’re not over them.

It's not uncommon to want to get your ex back after a breakup. But before you take any steps to win them back, it's important to first reflect on what went wrong in the relationship and whether or not getting back together is actually in both of your best interests.

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